Family values: a lesbian mother's fight for her son. Phyllis Burke. (Vintage, 1994) HQ75.53 .B87 1994
Lesbian mothers: accounts of gender in American culture. Ellen Lewin. (Cornell University Press, 1993) HQ75.53 .L49 1993
Lesbians and gay men as foster parents. Wendell Ricketts. (University of Southern Maine, 1991) HQ759.7 .R53 1991
River of promise: two women's story of love and adoption. Judy Dahl. (LuraMedia, 1989) HQ75.53 .D35 1989
Gay and lesbian parents. Edited by Frederick W. Bozett. (Praeger, 1987) HQ76.3.U5 G36 1987
Politics of the heart: a lesbian parenting anthology. Edited by Sandra Pollack and Jeanne Vaughn. (Firebrand Books, 1987) HQ75.53 .P64 1987 *At Young Research Library.
By her own admission: a lesbian mother's fight to keep her son. Gifford Guy Gibson, with the collaboration of Mary Jo Risher. (Doubleday, 1977) HQ75.5.R57 G5
Off and running: an American coming of age story. Nicole Opper. First Run Features, 2009. DVD E185.93.N56 O34 2009 White Jewish lesbian moms create a family through transracial adoption. Link to the film web site and watch the trailer here; POV website (includes update). Also streaming via Kanopy (UCLA only).
Mommy Mommy; directed by Sylvie Rosenthal. Rezolution Pictures Intl., 2007. DVD HQ75.53 .M65 2007 Lesbian couple creating a family in Canada.
Mom's Apple Pie: The heart of the lesbian mothers' custody movement. Frameline, 2006. DVD HQ75.53 .M655 2006
See also the parenting/family sections of national LGBT rights organizations, such as HRC, Lambda Legal, NCLR, & The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force.